One year ago, I was living a life that didn’t allow me to be present. Every minute was accounted for with taking care of my kiddos, my husband & my business. I would move from task to task without actually paying attention to my life and everything in it. This needed to change.
I was completely overwhelmed, not knowing how to get to a place of being present & content. Everything on my plate seemed important, so how was I to decide what needed to give in order for me to live my best life?
It’s been a slow process of refining, but I’m finally in a place where being present is becoming my reality.
I’ve realized that I don’t need to “keep up” with the rest of the world. I can go at my pace. I can build my business in baby steps and in God’s timing. I can let my house go a little bit if it allows for more time to play with my kiddos. I can make space in my day for resting and doing the things I enjoy.
Life is not meant to be lived checking off our to-do lists in order to feel productive. It’s meant to cultivate beauty in our lives and flourish in our relationships. It’s meant to be spent intentionally and with purpose. God’s purpose.
As soon as I realized that I had the power to change my life, the weight drifted off my shoulders and peace took it’s place.
My days are much slower now. Many of our hours are filled with whatever our hearts desire. So we play outside. We blow bubbles. We play in the water. I read my books. I play my guitar. We listen to music (always gotta have music!). We meet with friends. We live in the present.
Not every day is perfect, this is life with two young children of course! But most of my days are filled with the peace I so desperately desired. My mind is clear and free to take in the beauty that this life brings. I see my children’s faces with so much detail they’ve become etched in my memory. I’m truly soaking in this life. Breathing in the air. Noticing the trees and the flowers in bloom. I’m living MY life.
So how did I get here?
- I wrote down the things in my life that absolutely need to get done as well as the things that I want to be a part of my daily life.
- I looked at my calendar and figured out where each of these will fit best allowing for plenty of time in between tasks.
- I was realistic about what needs to get done and when.
- I set boundaries for work, cleaning the house, time with friends etc…
- I physically placed these items on the calendar and set reminders so that I don’t get back to that place of overwhelm.
- And I gave myself LOTS of GRACE…
Mom life is a beautiful life, but can become chaotic if you let it. Take control of your life, live each moment to it’s fullest and know that it’s ok to go at your pace. You got this momma!